and second approach was running
composer require silverstripe/framework 4.1.0
well, I tried two options. First I tried framework only, downloaded from https://silverstripe-ssorg-releases.s3.amazonaws.com/sssites-ssorg-prod/assets/releases/SilverStripe-framework-v4.1.0.tar.gz
while installing the whole framework (cms + framework) I have no problem with resources
When installing only framework with composer, and installing additional modules for admin section (like admin, assets-admin, siteconfig), there is a issue with the resources path
thank you, good to knowing the basics.